The plateau
You know what your best flying feels like. You just can't find your way back to it.
THE FUTURE BELONGS TO THE FLOW PILOT
Master the Mental Game.
Fly in Flow.
The community for pilots flying with more confidence, focus and flow. Train your mind, connect with your peers, and share your love for flying.
THE FUTURE BELONGS TO THE FLOW PILOT
Master the Mental Game.
Fly in Flow.
The community for pilots flying with more confidence, focus and flow. Train your mind, connect with your peers, and share your love for flying.
Paul Guschlbauer
Skywalk Team Pilot & 4x Red Bull X-Alps Podium Finisher
“Grant understands that paragliding is won in the mind, not with gear. He's doing great things for the paragliding community by bringing the science of flow to the forefront with Wingmates.”
Does this sound familiar?
The confidence
You have the skills. You've had the lessons. The confidence still isn't there.
The numbers
The flying that used to feel like freedom now feels like a performance review.
None of these are skill problems. They are interference problems. And interference can be removed.
How Wingmates Works
Wingmates is built around a four-part practice. Not a curriculum you work through once — a cycle you return to each flight, each month, each season, each year.
The PARA Model
(P)lan: Your North Star
Get clear on the pilot you're becoming, not just the pilot you are. Identity-based direction — where you're going and why it matters to you.
(A)ct: Dynamic Calm
Apply the mental tools in the air, not just in theory. Fear work, flow practice, and composure under pressure — taken to the hill.
(R)eflect: The Mirror
Share your flights, your wins, your struggles — in a safe and supportive community.
(A)djust: The Upward Spiral
Turn what you discover into how you fly. The upward spiral builds when reflection becomes practice, and practice becomes identity.
“After my only son died in 2018, my life lost its meaning. Paragliding brought me back to life five years ago. You suggested a way to return to myself. I find your practical advice on stabilizing my psycho-emotional state most valuable.”
— Sergey
What the Wingmates are Saying
Included with Wingmates
The Way of Fear
The course the paragliding world doesn't offer yet. Four modules built around a 7-step fear protocol, flow science, and the practical experience of working with pilots who've been exactly where you are.
Included with your membership$197 value
Understanding Your Fear Relationship
Fear, anxiety, and excitement are the same physiological arousal — interpreted differently. Learn to tell them apart and use what your body is already giving you.
Flow States & Fear
Fear is not the opposite of flow — it's the boundary of it. Map your patterns, understand what's driving them, and use fear as the entry point.
The 7-Step Protocol
Five steps in the air, two on the ground. A field-tested process for noticing, assessing, and responding — so you stay in the air with clarity instead of shutting down.
The CCC Protocol
A three-step compressed tool for the moment fear peaks. Simple enough to run in a few breaths, precise enough to change the outcome.
Join Wingmates to access
Access the full course inside Wingmates the moment you join.
Hey, I'm Grant
I'm a qualified paragliding instructor, guide, and accomplished XC pilot. I'm completing the ICF Flow Coaching certification with The Flow Centre — training to become the world's first paragliding flow coach.
My method follows the tradition of Gallwey's Inner Game. Not more instruction — removing the interference that is already in the way. When the noise is cleared, pilots discover they already know how to fly. The work is in getting out of your own way.
Most coaching focuses on technique. This doesn't. The gap between the flying you want and the flying you do is not technical. It's mental.
“This has become more than just a flight skill — it's a way of being. I feel a pervasive sense of calm and a significant reduction in mental noise. I've developed a new relationship with fear and anxiety, recognising them not as stop signs, but as energy to be transformed and utilised.”
— Alex, UK · Wingmates Member
“Working with you has changed my flying, especially dealing with the fear. I breathe, recognise it and now use it to my advantage.”
— Kurt Bester · Coaching Client
“Fear in this sport is something we need to be talking about more.”
— @sebass156 · YouTube
Pricing
Join Wingmates today.
Wingmates
The world's first flow-driven paragliding community.
Included features
- Weekly calls with Grant: Live sessions every week. Bring your flight stories, your sticking points, your questions.
- The Wingmates Crew: A global community of pilots doing the inner work alongside you — structure, accountability, and honest conversation.
- Personal support from Grant: Direct access via DMs and the community. Not a help desk — Grant himself.
- The Way of Fear (live — $197 value): A structured path through the fears that limit your flying — launch anxiety, commitment, and what happens in your body when the air changes. Includes the flow science fundamentals behind why fear blocks flow and how to work with it.